First, let me know that he has from the beginning that the "social anxiety" is not a disease, or even a syndrome to be diagnosed or described by those working in professions mental / psychological. In fact, each has certain remarkable degree of this "social anxiety" within each one of us. It manifests itself in varying degrees from person to person, and can be activated to a greater or lesser extent at any age.
This means that we can not be classified or condemns all manifestations and clear of modesty or the desire to want to be on its own. Nor, if the provisions relating to "depression" interference in the picture. At least not before allowing your child to use the innate, but very social individual through a matrix game that works on stage.
Now do not get the wrong idea, not "every man for himself" philosophy that works for all children, but it works ... Nearly 90% of the time, especially those who are willing to dive and become stimulated naturally by the joys of social benefits that arise through "work play" and the relationship with one opinion, and social and children may appeal.
Within a stimulating environment, and highlights the children, while playing with all the work, and others with others, challenging and motivating each other. Nothing can replace the therapeutic value of these "peer" systems approach through the challenges, recreational, social, and spontaneous at times, even if they acted emotionally in front of the other. Before a parent will notice, this playful and business strategies into concrete changes in personality and behavior.
You have to hold off on our judgments, perceptions, prejudices and preconceived notions about the social aspects of our children, at least until we give the opportunity for social life more dynamic. The best way I know through representation, and play acting, thinking like children. Regardless of labeling them, or worry about your mental health!
Communication and social interaction, communication, and there will be socially well-child rate at which they can live in a social challenge of rapidly expanding and highly motivated!
You have your children act today!
